Thank you all for sending us all your support, prayers, wishes and help. Aunt Bernadette told me that we would find that we have a lot of friends and friends we didn't know we had. She was right. Right now we are struggling with what this all means and how we will get through it. We are looking for strength, positive attitude and a fighting spirit. We haven't found it yet, but we're a tough lot, just not today. We have appointments to talk to 2 respected oncologists, in the next couple of weeks, we'd welcome any referrals if you have one. The boys have been strong, loving and brave, I'm incredibly proud of them. They're going back to school tomorrow. Tom is on a lot of meds, mostly sleeping. His recovery seems on track. He's not ready for visitors yet, but I've been sharing the emails with him. Please don't feel bad if you haven't contacted us, this list is for people that we think want to know what's going on. Feel free to share info with others and if someone wants to be added to the group, have them email me. I probably won't answer very many individual emails but I will keep you all posted. Thanks again for everything.

Jan